We Need Some Time Apart

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Sailing La Vagabonde

3 muaj më parë

#261 Life in close quarters can be full on when you're carting your life around on a boat together, so we're spending a bit of time apart as we head back westwards along southern Portugal.
We want to take the varnish off and speak our mind about some issues that we think are important, and give you guys a sense of some aspects of our lives away from the camera.
Philosophize This! Podcast By Stephen West
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Happiness Hypothesis Jonathan Haidght
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Psychology Podcast - Scott Barry Kaufman
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Song Credits:
00:00 Hollow Coves - Heatwave - open.spotify.com/artist/7IAFAOtc9kTYNTizhLSWM6?si=Qy2VBj1MT2exbHD77vjECQ
02:13 Good Lee & Andrew Rothschild - 24 - AndrewRothschilds/
05:58 Honey Hounds - Easy Like The Breeze - open.spotify.com/artist/2gBYe3dJe0NroE6tej4XnP
09:02 Brother Mane - Epiphany - open.spotify.com/artist/2vC1DrTfUraHejWRM6e9Bm?si=CCzX4xs6SH6tHFKH5PoPHQ
11:08 Yellow The Sun - Song For You - open.spotify.com/track/40ucfPqeCYTwSUwI9VwD9M?si=EkDlqItCSPyV2yKbLqO2Gg
14:17 Bill Beaumont - For The Birds Outside My Window - billbeaumont.bandcamp.com
17:19 Lachlan Ross - City Lights - Lachlanrossvisuals.com

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Anna Louther
Anna Louther 13 orë më parë
Me and my husband have literally been together since my senior year of high school and its been a crazy amazing journey. If any married couple says they never have rough times or fights they are lying straight up! Marriage is work and takes time and effort to make it last. I am going on 22 years. You two will make it and inspire so many. Lots of love to your sweet family.
Brian Wyse
Brian Wyse 2 ditë më parë
Decent stuff. It’s true, a lot of influencers look a little bit too happy too often, which is weird in fairness.
Mark Vernon
Mark Vernon 5 ditë më parë
The heart wants what the heart wants I guess.....
Rob Ketchens
Rob Ketchens 10 ditë më parë
Everything you do, you do by choice... with the exception of when Lenny creates drama. What I hear you say is one thing but what I see is Lenny entering his "Terrible Twos" and Riley wanting a break from him, not Elayna. Riley, the first thing he needs to do is stop the "B.S.". Becoming a parent comes in shock waves. Painful, scary, sudden, hard hits. Of course if you can't handle it at times, either suck it up or go away cause the spouse and the child will be better off. When you became a father, life just changed. From this point on, Lenny is the priority no matter how your desires and dreams move you. Of course, if Mom is tired or ill or weakened in any way, sorry mate, it's totally on you or other family if they are near and of course, desiring to step in. But please, if you are going talk about it on the vlog, stand tall and call it like it is. Does anyone else think it was Elayna that he needed a break from? You showed us the drama building She may have seen a break as a needed thing also. She seems like an absolutely awesome woman with that gift of patience and calm women of the world seem to have in trying times. And I'm sure she has her moments as everyone does. But, You're the man, and this life is your chosen one. I believe you are a great father! Don't worry about the small stuff. The worries you suffer now are nothing compared to the future. Just be glad you have a boy. If you get around to having girls, THE DRAMA BECOMES TEN FOLD, get a giant insurance policy, LOL, LOL, LOL... P.S. - Personally I wish you a boatload of them... LOL, LOL, LOL, LOL, LOL, LOL, LOL, LOL,
SarahsSimple& StylishMakeup
SarahsSimple& StylishMakeup 10 ditë më parë
Extremely ADMIRABLE that you two are addressing these issues that I’d say almost everyone faces. I just absolutely love you guys! As a mom of 3, my kids are 23, 15, & 13....I have no idea how you both stay sane raising a toddler on a boat! It must take an insane amount of patience. You are both very beautiful souls & your journey is amazing!!
SarahsSimple& StylishMakeup
SarahsSimple& StylishMakeup 10 ditë më parë
Have y’all ever sailed northeast to CT? Would absolutely love to meet you guys!!!
Design Studio
Design Studio 11 ditë më parë
a teaser
Joshua D
Joshua D 13 ditë më parë
Lol.. I know this is old.. But Lenny is such a boy.. Drinking his bottle with his right hand.. Left hand down his pants.. Gotta love the human condition and the separation between the male and female thoughts.. (this obviously doesn't include lgbtq and their thoughts and is not an attack on their values, rights, or beliefs).. It is a part of nature that should be recognized.. I did it.. So did my brother.. And I'm sure Lenny's father was a part of that too..
dustywake1
dustywake1 15 ditë më parë
Very well done. I really understood every word that you both said. All I really want to say is thanks for being real
david shepherd
david shepherd 16 ditë më parë
Good job Elayna isn't English. She would secretly grab your assets and contact a lawyer. She would contact the Police (are you reading this Avon and Somerset Police) place a contact order minimising your relationship with your son. Then you would have a visit by the Police giving you a minute to collect all your personal possessions and then deny you access to the La Vagabode. Its called Girl Power! As you have dared to argue with your wife then you have demonstrated domestic violence in Criminal Law and therefore the Police will (for self interest reasons) ensure that you have a criminal conviction. When an English Elayna returns to rational thought goes to the criminal court and says she didn't realise the Police would go this far and that she wishes to continue the relationship with you - the Courts, the Police smooth everything over to allow that to happen believing the woman to be a martyr. Thank God I now live in Australia where this pathetic injustice is nowhere near as bad. Your psychology knowledge does not matter one iota as your life and future is hanging on a thread by whatever Elayna state of mind is (even diagnosed mental illness). All power is with Elayna. Happy wife means happy life. You may never see your son again but for the next 17 years have to pay. On your side is that Elayna is Australian and from a country town so family means something to her, The Police in Australia show far more common sense than the British Police now.
Wesley Doogan
Wesley Doogan 17 ditë më parë
This is very poignant for many couples and families struggling with similar problems in lockdown. Absence makes the heart grow fonder. Much love. X
Gina Lee
Gina Lee 20 ditë më parë
I have anxiety, impacted on greatly by childhood going into adulthood trauma. My life also seems idyllic and it is. The anxiety though was there and through realisation that I needed some help has made me realise that getting help just makes me a human and I feel well rounded emotionally by addressing my psychological health. I’m in a good marriage of nearly 30 years and I adore my husband doesn’t mean we stop being human with everyday stresses having an impact. My husband and I really appreciated this vlog.
Stacey James Band
Stacey James Band 20 ditë më parë
what in the hell did he just cook and eat!!?? im not grossed out..looked good!!
Ian Crosby
Ian Crosby 20 ditë më parë
Love you both xx
Steve Gilson
Steve Gilson 21 ditë më parë
Loved the video Truly inspired by your life Wishing you only the best .
Tim Ellis
Tim Ellis 22 ditë më parë
Just want to send you all love. Your work it out. Dude your so smart and level headed. Also speaking to some of your friends about how your felling. Will help. Hug hug hug.
Sam Nieves
Sam Nieves 25 ditë më parë
Are they back together?
jose neto
jose neto 25 ditë më parë
Desejo tudo de bom pra vocês! Abraços.
Brian Dechant
Brian Dechant 25 ditë më parë
Hello Riley, it’s tough being a man. Especially a thinking man. You have all this crap spinning around in your head. Get a grip. Take a break if you need. You are a father now. Man up. I think you will be a hero.
Isuzu Buyer
Isuzu Buyer 26 ditë më parë
Great choice of song at the 14:00 mark.
Paul Hellewell
Paul Hellewell 26 ditë më parë
Be strong (I know, easier said than done), just do as you would in inclement weather, hunker down and weather the storm. Never give up and you'll all be stronger in the end.
The Nomadic Frog
The Nomadic Frog 29 ditë më parë
Thank you Riley so much! I'm going to look into those books I'm crippled living the RV life somewhat, but not to my full potential cuz I suffer from severe clinical depression and anxiety and become out of shape as well. I'm going to look into those books and see if they might help I would love to be able to sell one dayI'm 47 years old but like I said I'm out of shape and I have severe depression anxiety and my anxiety kicks up even worse when I'm away from medical attention.so be it out at Sea would be really hard for me unless I can figure out a way to beat this. Once again thank you so much ❤️🙏
Arturo Guede Seara
Arturo Guede Seara Muaj më parë
Thanks for sharing your true feelings guys, something we don't see often on social media ❤️
Helen Ewels
Helen Ewels Muaj më parë
hang in there...all things pass....trust in each other. All the best.
bennykell3
bennykell3 Muaj më parë
It's great to catch up on the videos. Life well mostly work... has been so busy (2 months behind!). I work in finance and the stock markets have been mental this year, good fun though. Always good to spend time apart as a couple every now and then to keep things fresh otherwise you'll go mad! We are going to try and do the same and try visit hotels more (once covid buggers off). Much love from London. Please don't read this in a posh British accent haha
WildAndCrazyGuy10
WildAndCrazyGuy10 Muaj më parë
Wow you guys really are real people I loved loved loved this episode! You both being so honest and real straightforward and and giving perspective on you and Elayna and Elayna and you and I thought Lenny was the perfect child I never knew that he actually threw tantrums but now I know he’s just like any other kid lol. With your videos I guess I just got lulled into you’ve got this perfect existence when you’re just like everyone else...❤️
Wendy S. King
Wendy S. King Muaj më parë
Lennie is teething. It IS ABSOLUTELY HORRIBLE!! But, it won't last forever. Hang in there. He screams because it hurts, poor little guy. Rub his gums and find a teething ring you can fill with ice water. Slip some codeine into his milk, just a tiny bit, and whiskey works too. It is part of making love: this is what happens when you do! We were all screaming toddlers once and that is also part of emotional experience, necessary to grow up properly. Patience is a virtue and this is practice! Put these teethers in the fridge or freezer. They help a lot. Here is a nice one with a clip:
fvonreiche
fvonreiche Muaj më parë
Thank you for the honest sharing. I think every couple have these moments. As with many things though - it is less in how you act and react in the perfect moments, but more about how you act and react in the not-so-perfect moments. Sometimes you need a break - not always from each other, but just the situation you are in. Through all this though - it is great to feel your emotions - check in with yourself and give yourself an honest assessment of where you are. Why you feeling the way you are feeling, and perhaps, what you need to get past this. This I feel is all part of a healthy process of learning about yourself and growing and evolving. If thinking about it on the emotional front is tough - it is the same as any physical challenge. Using a new muscle or a new movement. At first it can be massively tough, but the more you flex and move it - the better and stronger it becomes. That all being said - you guys have been through a lot together. This too shall pass ;-). Lots of love.
Turtle
Turtle Muaj më parë
8:00
Katie Robertson
Katie Robertson Muaj më parë
You all are loved. Take care of each other and focus on preserving the love you have.
Chris Taylor
Chris Taylor Muaj më parë
Best wishes for you both. It’s ok to spend time apart as long as you are not looking for someone else to fill the void. Take time to appreciate all the good things that you love about each other.
Shanna Kellogg
Shanna Kellogg Muaj më parë
I am a counselor and I highly recommend the book, "Mindset" by Carol Dweck. She talks about a Fixed mindset vs Growth mindset. Also, recommend "Untethered Soul". Good to hear you are reading about self help. You are what you think.
Tiaan Pistorius
Tiaan Pistorius Muaj më parë
💙💙💙
spongebob
spongebob Muaj më parë
this should be the life of lenny instead lol
Greg Knipe
Greg Knipe Muaj më parë
great production. we are all going to be fine. be well friends.
Eddie Ohearn
Eddie Ohearn Muaj më parë
It is hard enough to be an individual when by yourself and when you add the needs and desires of others ... well it is life.
Sharon Joana
Sharon Joana Muaj më parë
Rally check out Teal Swan. She has very interesting stuff about psychology and depression. xx
La'Naye Heatherly Washburn
La'Naye Heatherly Washburn Muaj më parë
I absolutely love that y'all r real and post the good N bad ! Shows that y'all care about each other's mental health! ❤️💯
Tom B.
Tom B. Muaj më parë
What you are doing is no different than my wife doing Girls Night Out or me going on a fishing trip with my buddies or a solo motorcycle trip (leaving tomorrow 😁). Abstinence makes the heart grow fonder.
Danellr007
Danellr007 Muaj më parë
Being Married is hard, its work. Being a parent is a whole nother level of hard. It's 24/7 FOREVER. The level of care for a child changes over the years, but you will always be a parent. Parents need a break from each other and from their children. They also need breaks together from their children.
shellybeau2006
shellybeau2006 Muaj më parë
The wind was so cooperative because it was bringing you back to Elana (sp?).
Jesse Frazier
Jesse Frazier Muaj më parë
Love the bit at 14:30 when Riley speaks on young men embracing and talking about their mental health struggles, being a 26 year old that has struggled with mental health I can say that it is hard to talk about but once you get the courage to speak about it and be able to handle it being out in the open, life gets much easier and there seems to be a weight lifted off of your shoulders. Thanks for sharing your experience with all of your fans Riley and Elayna, I feel as though social media, youtube influencers, and people of the like tend to get viewed as these folk who have it made, who don't have a worry in the world, and it's heartwarming to see that you all are brave enough and secure enough in your lives and relationship to share this type of thing with your fans and supporters. I"m two months late on watching this but I hope the two of you and little Lenni are doing great in your adventures and I wish the best of luck to you all.
kandy kelley
kandy kelley Muaj më parë
It must be so nice to be a dad....getting some alone time and getting to relax without babies
Philip Douglas
Philip Douglas Muaj më parë
Difficult to manage with only one person aboard but the amount of times I wish I had a drone aboard to fly up level with the bottom of the bridge so I could see by how far my mast would clear... Position it so the boat is between you and the bridge, raise it up until the girders are in line and your masthead just needs to be below the line. Best wishes to you all and keep living our dreams.
Leyon
Leyon Muaj më parë
I’ve watched this channel from the start, and sadly, the only thing that lacks from you guys compared to other similar channels is, honesty!! I may get flack from this opinion, but, it’s my opinion... I praise you guys, your relationship and how you live your lives. But, there is a certain ‘fakeness’ that has seeped into your channel for a while now that has been unmistakably obvious. It’s just as shame that you have to finally be honest with your subscribers only when it involves your ‘shooting process’. I just urge you to be REAL! Be your true selves. The good the bad and the ugly, just be yourselves. Cos believe me, we notice.. so why not just be real! All the best guys, and I hope from now on, you can feel free to shoot unrestrained and unfiltered.
Scott Hogan
Scott Hogan Muaj më parë
its them bangs please stop cutting them yourself! lol
Joseph Slabaugh
Joseph Slabaugh Muaj më parë
This video helped my wife and I. As we were watching one morning curled up with our coffee's in bed it opened a dialogue between us that has since grown into us being more aware of how necessary personal space is. Your video has also shone a light on the importance of taking preemptive measures to keep a healthy balance between us! Thanks for sharing the "ugly side" of sailing and living on a boat, I admire that its not just all sunshine and rainbows in your videos!
LX
LX Muaj më parë
I never watched a youtube video so closely. Having a full time job as a couple whiling taking care of kid is extremly hard, especially now days with the faster pace of life. Not to mention you guys are on a boat! When I lying on the bed emptying my brain you have to do a watch. I am sure both of you burnt out. this stage of life almost drove me and my wife apart. We care each other but to a point we just couldnt take it anymore. No others could give you any material advices but you guys have to work it out. Listen to your heart, and be honest with each other, dont throw out words if you really mean it. I am sure you will work it out!
GMK28
GMK28 Muaj më parë
how much does it cost to start and get a boat like that I'm curious ?
Derek Henshaw
Derek Henshaw Muaj më parë
I'm sure it has been mentioned but it would make sense to have a way to hoist a camera to the masthead to be able to see the highest point of La Vagabonde as you go underneath objects like bridges. Seeing would relieve stress and give that 100% assurance that something is a good idea. Love the video and great to see a real relationship well and respectfully shared as yours is here.
Broc MacDonald
Broc MacDonald Muaj më parë
I really liked a few episodes back where you were writing in a “gratefulness journal” and you mentioned being grateful in this episode. Have you read any of the teachings from Sydney Banks? There are a couple of books of his that are quick reads but worth it. Check out “The Enlightened Gardener”
Jennifer Lopesi
Jennifer Lopesi Muaj më parë
Thank you for sharing this with us. These moments and challenges you face are equally as important to share as well. It definitely helps others to see the reality. I have always marveled at how well both of you seem to cope with the day-to-day living, running a boat, a ALnets channel and a family. But this is a welcome reminder that we're all human and life isn't always smooth sailing (pun not intended). I've had times in my life where I have seemingly had everything going for me (from an outside perspective) and for some reason, I wasn't as happy during that time as I 'should' have been. I used to struggle with anxiety and depression a lot and I had to make a conscious effort to really stop and be present as much as possible. I've learned how to manage it a lot better now. As you know the highs and lows are normal and we need the contrast to see things clearly and hone in on what it is we really want. Everyone deals with their down times differently but what helped me was finally letting go of any labels I put on myself that I identified with. I was creating a lot of pressure on myself for trying to maintain an unrealistic version of who I thought others wanted me to be. For example, "I'm an actor". I gave it all up during a time I had really gained momentum because it simply wasn't fulfilling me like it used to. And it was honestly the best decision I have ever made. Once I let go of that identification of being an actor it opened up a whole new world for me and it felt extremely liberating. This started a domino effect in all areas of my life and I finally began living life on my terms again. Anyway, I slightly digressed... I don't know if this is relevant to you but I'm sharing this for others as well in case someone can take anything from part of my story too. I'm not sure what you are personally experiencing at the moment but you have the self-awareness, which, in my opinion is half the battle won. I love listening to Tom Bilyeu's Channel 'Impact Theory' and 'Health Theory'. He interviews many people from all walks of life and listening to them has definitely helped me learn a lot about my state of mind and well being. I highly recommend. Thanks again for sharing. Take care and do you :)
Mitchell Backhouse
Mitchell Backhouse Muaj më parë
Little Lenny so clueless when he keeps dropping his cutlery
Ronz Nine
Ronz Nine Muaj më parë
It makes sense at the time. Stay apart for awhile, everyone comes back healthier, etc, etc. But those days apart, and everything that could have been in them, are gone forever. Hopefully, burning them makes the future better. Hopefully. My wife of almost 10 years fell ill one Thanksgiving and was dead at 49 by the next Thanksgiving. Every day, I think what else we could've done together, where we could have gone, things we could've seen had we had any idea our time together had months or weeks or hours left in it. Just saying. Be careful tossing away time together. You just never know. Sometimes, when it ends, it ends suddenly. Hopefully, that never comes to pass for you--but if it does, you won't value all that time apart even a little. Trust me on that.
Annabel
Annabel 2 muaj më parë
It can't be easy to be so open to the public, I find it difficult to just be open to my partner. So I honestly take my hat off to you as a couple and as a little family. Thank you for sharing what you've shared over the years and good luck in your future endeavours. X
Arkman
Arkman 2 muaj më parë
When you open the door and invite the world to become family, the tension only increases. Nothing beats anonymity and the ability to say I hate you , without having to explain it to the neighbors and friends. Of course in a good marriage , a women is secure in saying this because the good husband just wants the storm to end and get back to normal.
Turtle Pwr
Turtle Pwr 2 muaj më parë
You both are beautiful souls. Thank you for inspiring me and sharing all facets of your story. I’m grateful for all you do for us beyond the screen.
Aaron Bethard
Aaron Bethard 2 muaj më parë
You’re beautiful and he’s an awesome dude! You’re lucky to have each other!!!!!
Emily REY
Emily REY 2 muaj më parë
This video helped me a lot with some personal problems 😔❤️❤️
Jillian King
Jillian King 2 muaj më parë
Correction ......Maslow's Hierachy of Needs.... I work with young children and families and am not usually surprised when many end in divorce ..... All the usual things when both parents are working full-time with a young family, and don't have paid help or strong family support. Something usually gives as a result of the pressures they place on themselves or necessity. It's a flawed notion that 'women (or at least the primary care giver) can have it all' i.e. family, career while children are very young) The women that do manage to combine a young family with the demands of working career almost always have hired help to do the food shopping, cooking, cleaning, child caring/rearing etc. You both seem to be doing an excellent job with Lenny :)
lordabhi
lordabhi 2 muaj më parë
Man - You guys are so special together. I am sure every thing will work out. So sad..
Brent Jones
Brent Jones 2 muaj më parë
Well done for sharing
Emilee Gomez
Emilee Gomez 2 muaj më parë
Jesus loves each and every one of you!
Adventure Encounters
Adventure Encounters 2 muaj më parë
😊😊😊👏👏👏
Gary Mingy
Gary Mingy 2 muaj më parë
Press on comrade !
Peter. Hatch
Peter. Hatch 2 muaj më parë
Get some strange ! Bro and when the second child comes your life is over ! Eating is not cheating
Trista Gladeau
Trista Gladeau 2 muaj më parë
U MAKE ME 😢 CRY
Trista Gladeau
Trista Gladeau 2 muaj më parë
💜 U GUYS ARE A GOOD COUPLE AND YES IF U NEED TIME APART THEN DO IT BUT IT WOULD BE SAD IF U BROKE UP JUST TRY TO DO WHAT U NEED TO DO FOR LENNY TO U ARE A FAMILY 👪 AND BEAUTIFUL TO I LOVE U GUYS ❤
Nick Twaddell
Nick Twaddell 2 muaj më parë
real talk!
T.N.
T.N. 2 muaj më parë
Love this Riley and Elayna. You're incredible 'influencers'. You deserve that title!
Mike Stumpgrinding
Mike Stumpgrinding 2 muaj më parë
Who ever craps there pants is in charge . Wisdom
Kirtan Dreamrezzer
Kirtan Dreamrezzer 2 muaj më parë
Aloha, love & blessings, thought I'd share a beautiful quote: “Let there be spaces in your togetherness, And let the winds of the heavens dance between you. Love one another but make not a bond of love: Let it rather be a moving sea between the shores of your souls. Fill each other's cup but drink not from one cup. Give one another of your bread but eat not from the same loaf. Sing and dance together and be joyous, but let each one of you be alone, Even as the strings of a lute are alone though they quiver with the same music. Give your hearts, but not into each other's keeping. For only the hand of Life can contain your hearts. And stand together, yet not too near together: For the pillars of the temple stand apart, And the oak tree and the cypress grow not in each other's shadow.” ― Khalil Gibran, The Prophet
Maria Street
Maria Street 2 muaj më parë
I've known about you guys for a while but confess I haven't watched any of your videos until now. And wow, what have I been missing? For all of you La Vagabonde fans from day 1, congrats :). I'm working my way backward so I can stay current! Your latest videos have really pinpointed where I feel like I am at in my own life. Riley's line "I haven't been as happy as I should be lately" has haunted me for the past few weeks since I've watched this. So first off, Riley. I really thank you for sharing this with us. I've gotten the impression that sharing what "boat life" is really like is important to you. I think you've done a great job of this lately and everyone seems to be in full support, keep it up! Second, I have started to listen to the Happiness Lab. I'm also new to the podcast world. Not for lack of interest. More for lack of recommendations. So when someone suggests a podcast recommendation I tend to pounce on it. After listening to most of the first season I keep wondering about what La Vagabonde's experience has been with this. Did you find it helpful? I am curious if you have any suggestions on how to take the content further? How has what you have learned in the Happiness Lab influence how you spend your day to day lives? Really glad I picked up watching you when I did. Thanks for inspiring a sense of adventure in all of us!
Diana Lovelady
Diana Lovelady 2 muaj më parë
Love u guys and prayers for happiness and fulfillment for you guys
Mark Vanderkam
Mark Vanderkam 2 muaj më parë
Why not move back to Australia and run a sailing charter business which will go gangbusters with all your fame. You could also teach courses on how to run a ALnets channel. Then you can have a house on land, connections with friends, and your child can be surrounded by cousins, grandparents, other kids at daycare, etc.? Do you really want to deny your child those connections and opportunities so you can run a reality TV channel? I don't mean to be harsh and I am sure you have thought of all the options. You three are an inspiration and have touched so many lives.
Mauro Fomiatti
Mauro Fomiatti 2 muaj më parë
Suave, mari magno turbantibus aequora ventis, e terra magnum alterius spectare laborem; non quia vexari quemquamst iucunda voluptas, sed quibus ipse malis careas quia cernere suave est. Suave etiam belli certamina magna tueri per campos instructa tua sine parte pericli. Sed nil dulcius est, bene quam munita tenere edita doctrina sapientum templa serena, despicere unde queas alios passimque videre errare atque viam palantis quaerere vitae , certare ingenio, contendere nobilitate, noctes atque dies niti praestante labore ad summas emergere opes rerumque potiri. O miseras hominum mentes, o pectora caeca! Qualibus in tenebris vitae quantisque periclis degitur hoc aevi quodcumquest! Nonne videre nil aliud sibi naturam latrare, nisi utqui corpore seiunctus dolor absit, mente fruatur iucundo sensu cura semota metuque Bye
Grant Botha
Grant Botha 2 muaj më parë
Absolutely amazing episode! I think one of your best! Riley a thanks especially for sharing as a man your emotional challenges! Elayna we so appreciate your honesty and amazing bravery through your own anxieties! I read a book a couple of months ago by Dr Wayne Dyer, he speaks about Divine Synchronicity- it’s when things just happen or show up when we need it most! I have watched 2 episodes where you guys spoke about being real and that our emotions just happen in-spite of our ‘perfect surroundings’. At the time I really needed to hear this. So often we say words like ... oh how I wish could just sail off into the sunset ... with no worries... Thanks for your amazing input into our lives. Truly you guys are amazing! Love to you from us Grant and Laraine Botha South Africa
funnyglow
funnyglow 2 muaj më parë
Beauty the scenery is so beautiful and stunning.Very enjoyable! Reminds me of my trips where I take the good music like the Guns N Roses, Imagine Draongs or the Delta Parole and then enjoy the powerful feeling of the sea. ¡vamos!
Roxana Popescu
Roxana Popescu 2 muaj më parë
Love your videos! So beautiful
DaNimalLecToR
DaNimalLecToR 2 muaj më parë
Another thing too, just from a man to man perspective dont get yah self twisted over resenting your children when there at that age , naturally you love them but it's also very natural to kinda not like them too , they are hard work , they cant talk , they just cry to comunicaten , and its handy to leave it up to mum at that age cause they like her better, for comfort etc . Mums probably buggered too When he starts to become a little older look out the real fun begins and that's when the real best mate relationships start and yourself and mum grow another leg ,
DaNimalLecToR
DaNimalLecToR 2 muaj më parë
Take a break from the you tube br0 Mum needs a break from the bubz too , And all woman need there mums or sister or aunts for support with the young fella
David Robertson
David Robertson 2 muaj më parë
I agree with Hollie. Mom needs time alone.
Michael Livingston
Michael Livingston 2 muaj më parë
It would be more shocking if the two of you always pretended things are going great. It's normal, but there's going to be a need for space. Momma needs her time with her friends and without them, but certainly needs to be given time without Lenny. Children are attention seekers and energy grabbers. We had four. The two of you need someone on land for a day or so to watch over your child while you get some time together. Life has it's ups and downs, I wish the both of you the best.
Lord Killa90
Lord Killa90 2 muaj më parë
A problem for me in many relationships is that I'm introverted. It's not that I don't like you it's that when I'm alone I recharge. I enjoy peace and solidarity but many don't understand it and think I'm just being un caring.
499PUCK
499PUCK 2 muaj më parë
Caveriao is a great spot. Plenty of bars and restaurants to pick from. Spent a few vacations there.
Jason Kellett
Jason Kellett 2 muaj më parë
Its a floating house navigating the ups and downs of life..just like us all, thankyou for the connection!
Mario Coelho Vasco
Mario Coelho Vasco 2 muaj më parë
Love you Guys 🥰⚡
Kee-pyor Myndopen
Kee-pyor Myndopen 2 muaj më parë
God, Riley would look so good in drag. Those eyes.
Cory
Cory 2 muaj më parë
Check out James 1: 2-3. 😊
Hedonist Euphony
Hedonist Euphony 2 muaj më parë
14:41 😘❤️L- Tyrosine for dépression
Karen N
Karen N 2 muaj më parë
It is so health to be proactive in recognizing an issue before it becomes a problem. Good for you both. Reality is so important to share when a window into your life can be made to be unrealistically perfect. Thanks for sharing.
Greguinho Caroco
Greguinho Caroco 2 muaj më parë
Great episode guys!
Curlew -
Curlew - 2 muaj më parë
Where else will you find the love you both find in that little boy? You won’t. Life’s harder for everyone with children, but as time goes on the benefits are incalculable 😁👍
Laura Broadbent
Laura Broadbent 2 muaj më parë
Wow this was refreshing. I sat down to watch with a sigh, “welp let’s watch their perfect life, shall we?”
Superrandomz
Superrandomz 2 muaj më parë
Wow! You both are amazing individuals. Don’t stress about this too much. It’s part of life and you just have to push thru. This lockdown and all that is happening in the world also has an impact I’m sure. Look let’s face it, the honeymoon period is over. And you have a child now too. It happened in my relationship too and it took some time but you get thru it if you really want to. Well done for still being able to release amazing honest content. I would have felt like crawling into a hole. Anyhow enjoy and appreciate the lows as it makes the highs so much better. All the best You two. You’ll be fine🙂
McLaren Croft
McLaren Croft 2 muaj më parë
Man my heart hurts because Riley seems so much more upbeat alone. But taking a break is just going to make you stronger.
McLaren Croft
McLaren Croft 2 muaj më parë
BEST FOOD REVIEW EVER. 😂😂😂
Chi Chi
Chi Chi 2 muaj më parë
That was such a refreshing, authentic and genuine look into your lives. Thank you so much for this video.
SoLo Killer
SoLo Killer 2 muaj më parë
god I love your fucking accent and the positive vibe you give off even if it might not seem like it sometimes. best of luck to you and your loved ones.
adam lorden
adam lorden 2 muaj më parë
so cringe that people watch this.
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